Ok, by that I mean we don't keep to a schedule, of any kind. We don't even keep the same schedule between us.
So, when I fix his dinners, I usually put them in plastic containers in the frig so he can eat them whenever he wants. He's got the microwave down... mostly.
It's amazing what a little independence can do, even when it comes to things like choosing when to eat or sleep. (Stuff most people take for granted or have dictated to them by work schedules, etc.
Today I walked in and thought I was living with Fred Flintstone! Next lesson: It's not a game to see how many plates, containers you can fit on the table at one time! Gez.....